Kerry Cohen Hoffmann said: February 4, 2008 12:28 pm PST
Since we first started feeling concerned that something was different about our son Ezra, and when he didn't seem to be developing language the way typical children did, my husband and I have been searching for a place where our son could grow. For a good year we tried various schools - an integrated preschool, montessori, waldorf - and all left us feeling desperate and afraid there might be no place for Ezra, no place where he would simply be celebrated, supported, encouraged, and seen for the special, wonderful person he is. The current climate of our culture is weighted with the notion that autism is a tragedy, that we need to find a cure, as though we were speaking of a deadly disease. We have felt terribly protective of Ezra, for this reason. I have run quickly from evaluators, special ed teachers, therapists, etc who believed Ezra needed to be more "normal," who only saw his issues and not his unique strengths, who didn't seem to understand that Ezra was perfect just as he is. When we found the School of Autism, we were afraid it couldn't be true, but as it came clear that these very special people really were providing a school that honored autism not as a disease, or even a disorder, but as a neurological difference. They love Ezra for who he is, while still giving him the pushes he needs. When I arrive to pick him up, they don't tell me the things he didn't do that day. Instead, they give me back the gift I felt was stolen from me for so long - not because Ezra has autism, but because so many people see his autism as something negative - the gift of having others acknowledge what is wonderful about my child. We are so relieved and thrilled to have finally found a true home for our son. And for our family.